First of all, influence of kindness has effect on people that friendship can tolerate strong winds of storm. Once water is gentle, time to coming back to place titled “ confort zone” to either shout, shed tears, laugh,scream,yell,etc. So hope you got few minutes to listen . my version it’s time consuming hand writing or typing on computer but rates of postal stamps 1980’s $0.50…….. 1990’s $1.00…. 2000’s $ 2.00…Big praises to computer or smart phone, we can have quick reply from family or friend via internet
So anyhow on July 13, mark two year death anniversary of my beloved father . My mother is still alive whom now caregiver for her. She gotten report need hearing aids for ears , life easy cause she can listen to conversation …You know written in bible” honor your parents “ .. it up to person to fallow bible but if you wanted more … give back …

I been out touch each member from pacific ocean pen pals club. Just happy you discovered decent friends from POPPC, I am certain if you visit Honolulu .. * promise meet you , let do culture/gift exchange